Attention senior women of all ages, sizes and shapes, men too. It's time for us to feel good about our bodies and step back into enjoying life in all of its moments. I want to speak to you about the feelings that may occur when you might be thinking about entering into an intimate relationship and have those "awful" feelings about having an older body.
There are a few way to approach this:
Transition Coaching
Set up a lovely, candlelit area, yes, just like you used to do, except now the candlelight will soften your feelings about your body.
Realize that your partner is probably thinking the exact same thing. Men think this way as well, God bless them!
Just suck it up, know that life and sexual activity are really, really fun, and nourishing to our spirits.
Quick note: If you're in your 70s, as I am, and usually am with a partner near my age sweet nothings whispered in the ear when your body is close to his or her may not be heard. I've had this happen. So, prior to getting physically close bring out all the sweet, sexy and endearing things you want to say so he or she can hear them, and face it, ladies, here's another opportunity for a turn-on with your guy.
We all have the opportunity now to exercise, live a really healthy life, and involve ourselves in all kinds of physical activities so there is no excuse for feeling anything but positive about our selves.
For many years younger people have made strange comments and noises when thinking about their parents, or their grandparents enjoying sex in their later years, but now that a whole lot of us are older, you just don't see those comments as much. I still see senior people on television portrayed as pretty silly, and non-sexual. Well, here's another shocker, older people have been enjoying themselves sexually for years. The cat is out of the bag now!
Life at any age is precious and beautiful. Having healthy, intimate moments with a person you care about just can't be beat! Having an open heart is a way to connect with nature, people, animals, flowers, plants and trees, and all of life.
With so many single people of all ages now living healthy and fun lives it's time to put away our fears and considerations about our bodies. It will make no difference in the bedroom, trust me! And remember,
there is no Senior Playboy! Can I get an Amen!
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